Rebekah said, "This program didn't just save my marriage, but it really saved me."
"When I joined the program I felt like the functional aspects of our marriage were good, but I felt like the emotional side had been drifting away slowly for a while. I often felt hesitant to share my emotions or initiate sex. The disappointment I felt after not taking opportunities would continue the negative feedback loop causing more hesitation. The first few weeks of lessons were extremely helpful in showing me how to break that cycle and focus on what I could control. That helped me get through that hesitation, and once I opened up again I could also feel a shift in [my wife]. As we continued with the helpful habits from the program things quickly improved, and we've also been able to utilize ideas from the program with our kids. It's really been wonderful, and I can very easily say that I feel closer to [my wife] now than at any other time in our relationship."
"I don't think it's an exaggeration when I say Dr. Rachel and her program saved my life, not just my marriage. I came to her at my absolute lowest, without any hope for my marriage. We had tried couples counseling, and my spouse was just "done" trying.
Dr. Rachel's encouragement and steady guidance has helped me to begin the necessary repairs that should have happened long ago. Since my spouse had given up on working on our relationship, I did the program alone, and it is totally worth it. She will support you with everything you need to rebuild yourself and your relationship. For the first time ever, we are able to have the hard conversations that we need to have--all because Dr. Rachel has given me the tools necessary to navigate the choppy waters.
You need this program. You need to do it for yourself, your marriage, and your family."
"Before reaching out and watching the initial video, I was in panic mode with my spouse. We had been living across the country due to work obligations for over two years and the disconnect between us was larger than the Grand Canyon. It was further complicated because we share two wild young boys whom needed their father and the talks about not moving back in when my work was complete I felt lost and desperate.
All was not lost though in the call with Dr. Rachel as she heard what was upsetting my wife and myself to review if we were good candidates for this program. There was still hope but a lot meant that if I wanted the marriage to work I needed additional skills to break the negative loop we had been on for years.
This doesnt require BOTH partners to take on the WORK. One person can influence the relationship, and so I enrolled and dove in. The interactions with my wife shifted to a "problem solving" and "procrastinating counseling" to "listening, empathizing, and showing the support I was not communicating effectively"
I saw progress after a few weeks (granted we live across the country, people in the same house or area there can be a more intense or immersion approach) as I began to let go of things outside of my control and just be more present, supportive, and aware.
Concluding the program my wife said she really liked how the connection is not hostile in underlining tone and that she wants to go through the modules to see more of what I have learned and continue to review and practice for the "maintenance phase"
This is an invaluable program that does not drag out years and years. It is intense for faster implementation. GET THE SKILLS AND APPLY THEM! Why wait for a hour a week and then return back to the downward spiral until the next week. Make every day count.
Watch the video on Dr. Rachel's site. If you think you are in need of help reconnecting, put down the Cosmo and the relationship books you never actually finish and seek PRO HELP. Not everyone can get in shape physically without trainers, group classes, and some motivation why should a relationship be any different.
Your relationship is worth it. Call Dr. Rachel and get your marriage back on track."
"I thought that opening up to my partner would be awful, as it turns out it's great! With what I've learned I can communicate much better, and they are much more accepting than I thought they would be."
"I'm so grateful. This has been transformative."
"I always thought it was my husband's problem and we needed to fix that, I never realized how much I contribute to our dynamic. Our relationship is so different now."